Amanda Stanhaus

Tag: magazines

Saving is Sexy


I’m alway aspiring to make saving sound sexy, but Helen Gurley Brown was the original.

Here are a selection of Helen’s tips from what’s basically my bible, Sex and the Single Girl.

-Scrimp on what isn’t sexy or beautiful or really any fun, so you can afford what is.

-Never pay more when you can pay less.

-Don’t subscribe to a newspaper if you see one at the office or can borrow your landlord’s.

-Ditto magazines. Ask a friend to pass hers on after she’s read them.

-If you pay the bills, turn off the lights when you leave home.

-Give up smoking.

-Negotiate with everybody.

-Don’t undertip. This little economy is unworthy of you.

-Work for a rich man.

-Get adopted by a wealthy couple.

Got it? Got it!


(Originally published on Amanda Stanhaus’s financial literacy blog: XO, Bettie.)

Dates with Financial Advisors


I like dating. I always, at least, learn something new. Best case scenario, I make the acquaintance of someone who meets my painfully high standards.

When picking a financial advisor, I looked for one I liked that understood me & my goals. Financial advising is not a place I wanted to learn any life lessons along the way (i.e. there will be no mistakes to learn from).

(click on the bold-faced vocab word:))

I first asked around for names from friends and family. Also, I started reading investment magazines to see what were the names of the big companies.

Before I meet him or her in person, I wanted to see what was on the internet.

Yes, I approve of financial advisor internet stalking. I checked out the individual’s linkedIn. I googled the name along words like fraud, churning. I extensively reviewed the company’s website.

If nothing terrible was found, I called up for an appointment.

I came prepared with questions like these (thanks Forbes!). I also looked to see if this would be a compatible match—50/50 talking time, similar goals and experiences,  young enough to understand my position, but old enough to be wiser than me.

If I’m going to be talking to my financial advisor on the regular and he or she is to know my deepest/darkest $$ secrets, I have to be comfy.

Good luck! Remember be picky!


(Originally published on Amanda Stanhaus’s financial literacy blog: XO, Bettie.)